topic of curiousity

Sensitive and rather private topic here. Not for me at least. My ex's ex looked me up in friendster, and then in msn. I'd added him at his request as i just wanted to find out what happened. And after the short exchange did i realise some things...

We'd noticed a pattern in her (our ex's) behaviour. She'd apparently been doing the same thing all this while. It's like every 3 years or so, she hooks up with a different guy. But the thing is, this will happen probably gradually, as around the end of the first 2-3 years with Guy A, she'd get suspiciously bored of the relationship and move on in a way. When i used "suspicious", I'd meant that she'll manage to get to know some other unsuspecting Guy B while still with Guy A.

The next step of her modus operandi would be then to start being impatient and quarrelsome with Guy A, maybe even possibly meeting up secretly with the unsuspecting Guy B (alone) and eventually avoid Guy A for 2 weeks straight without meeting up or responding to phone calls or smses. Bad as I may sound, this seemed to have happened for the 2 of us, as I'd discovered. She'll then finally declare she wants to break off with Guy A and therefore turns single, possibly in hope that Guy B will hop right on. But hey, the above was just speculation by my ex's ex ok? ;) You be your own judge of the situation, but don't judge her as it's her life, her rules. Although quite frankly I'd send her my condolences if this is the way she's decided to ru(i)n her life with. It's sad, really. Because even one of her closer girl friend(s) had also drifted far away from her due to her behaviour.

So girl, make up your freaking mind. What's all that talk about nearly going ROM with this ex you just broke up with? Thought you were all religious and stuff? He wasn't religious enough for you? Ended up with him looking me up in friendster to complain to me about you. Where's the faith in the relationship indeed... if this lady want's to get married, she oughta find a guy and stick to him. Guys aren't clothes you can throw away once you get sick of them. They have feelings too eh?

Minus the fact that your ex seemed somewhat gay with the notions he'd been giving as he typed in our exchanges (if i'd misread his lines badly i'd think he was hitting on me seriously!) I'm fine with the situation now as I'm really happy with my current girl. No thanks to you... well maybe indirectly but i'm not going to give you credit for letting me go.

*Her loss, your gain, baby. xD*